Are you Sexting?

Well, as the great battle remains, I can say there is no difference between teenage girls’ behavior (flashing and what not) 20-30 years ago and their behavior today. But today, what pushes our girls into depressions and suicide because of the same behavior is the fact that shame will follow them, in some cases, forever.

Technology is not bad behavior’s friend anymore!

I’m not saying in anyway that it’s technology’s fault, I am saying that girls before used to flash their body at guys or do anything for guys to show them they are worthy of our attention even before today’s technology.

Of course, guys, as always shared the stories with their friends and those stories went around school claiming Stacy is a slut who flashed and does anything for a guy’s attention but the stories never got passed the “I heard Stacy is a slut” stage because two or three days later everybody would forget about it.

Today these young girls cannot count on time to make it all go away thanks to technology. When girls flash their bodies, there is always a digital camera, cell phone camera to record or take a picture of this event. Girls themselves take nude pictures of them with their cell phone and send them via text messages to guys.

“Where is technology involved in this problem which causes young girls today to fall into deep depressions and suicide?” might you say?

Well the picture or video goes from the original recipient’s phone to a friends phone who then sends it to another friend and so on. That picture or video will go around and around and around and that is where the girls become haunted by their own picture.

this is to show, girls will never change. Is it a good idea to behave in such way? I say it is not our decision to make but it is up to the girl determine whether or not this is a good idea. What is not taken into account is that boys will always be boys and will always want to share with their friends.

I hope this helps understand  the situation and hopefully it will open some eyes and girls will get more support and help from friends and family.